Do you know what a Twin Flame is? It’s along the lines of a Soulmate, although the connection is actually a lot stronger than a much more common ‘soulmate’ bond.
When twin flame’s initially meet, often one or both are already in other relationships or are married. Sometimes, a little after meeting, some twin flames form a relationship with someone else.
We often wonder how they could even attempt to love another once they have met their twin flame. Many of us can take it extremely personally and see it as a rejection. But I would like to offer you a different perspective.
This other relationship or marriage is a preparation before the twin flame reunion. Often, these other relationships are mainly focussed on the 3D limiting relationship paradigms which cause people to feel trapped and their soul growth stunted. Again, we wonder why they stick around and “cling onto” such a limiting expression of “love” which is often really just fear and conditions.
They are playing out karma that needs to be sorted out before they are ready to unite with their twin flame. They are learning the old relationship paradigm very well so they know exactly what it is we are wanting to transcend. Only through first hand experience can we help others who are going through the same thing to exit that cycle.
Often their marriage or relationship is unhappy and they are operating through wearing masks. There is a deep fear of being authentic with each other because their relationship only stays afloat through wearing the masks and abiding to the unspoken “rules” of conditions. “You wear that mask and do this for me and I will remain happy and not ask questions. I will wear this mask and pretend everything is happy on the surface just so we aren’t forced to be honest and have “the talk””.
These unhappy relationships are very lonely. They force your twin flame to live a double life – the masked appearance they adopt in front of their partner / family etc, and the real them beneath that which is aching for release, truth, love and real connection. But because they have got so used to wearing the masks, not just in this relationship, but throughout their lives, they don’t always consciously realise the source of their depression. They may not consciously realise they are wearing masks. Society tells us that this is what love and a relationship should be. So many people don’t even question their unhappy marriage / relationship. They feel it’s normal.
Many twin flames go through an unhappy marriage where they feel stuck because the presence of the twin flame slowly makes them become more conscious of their true self (their soul) and they begin remembering what true love is. This then comes into consciousness initially through a deep sense of dissatisfaction at the core, even if to begin with they don’t fully understand where that dissatisfaction is coming from. It will take a while for the subconscious to filter into the consciousness. The presence of the twin flame sparks this initial awakening.
Twin flame’s purpose is to help the people of this world to understand what real love is with the twin’s as the example and voice of true love’s wisdom. Twin flames are here to change the planet, to bring the world back to true love. The twin flames must suffer the same limitations to love that everyone else does so they can deeply understand that which they are working to heal in the long run through their twin flame reunion and mission.
Their relationship or marriage is helping them to settle karma and learn their own lessons that they agreed upon with this person before twin flame reunion can happen. And then the presence of the twin flame and the satisfaction it highlights to the one who feels stuck in an unhappy circumstance, causes them to retreat further into themselves so they really get in touch more with who they are at the core. This helps to eventually develop the intuition. The heart’s call is suddenly recognised as being stronger than the minds logic and reasoning which had previously been giving them all sorts of reasons why they “should” stay (according to what society expects relationships to be).
This development of intuition and the heart opening in the process aligns the twin more with their soul self. This is when they become ready to explore the option of moving on from their limiting relationship.
But it’s all a process, it’s all a learning curve, it’s all happening to help them remember themselves. Have faith, trust the universe knows what it’s doing to help you to achieve your highest good. Surrender, be patient, find your own inner security and joy and then you will find the inner peace to go with the flow of your path and you will naturally always be living your highest good.
All is happening to assist you.